Friday, June 3, 2011

Hopkins - Day Four

Today was decidedly NOT a good day.

It just started bad and incremented itself into one of those days you wish you could have skipped altogether. There were several things I would categorize as not great news but there were two things in particular that can be categorized as plan old crappy.

First, as a mother I stink....I spent much of this week berating Max for having "made up" his neck pain during our first pre-op appointment. Today we were told that his x-rays from yesterday show a deterioration in his cervical spine, although not uncommon in children with connective tissue disorders it is something we'll need to watch (cause we don't have enough things to watch). It's also something I should not have made lightly of, but who knew? Max never complains that anything hurts so I assumed he was just giving the doctors a hard time.

Second, surgery has been postponed....twice. During our cardiology appointment we were told that a rather sick baby was born last night and needed immediate surgery, obviously this pushed the whole schedule out a day. By the time we saw the surgeon shortly thereafter we had been moved from Tuesday morning to Tuesday afternoon, another sick newborn. This is a good news, bad news situation. The good news is that Max will be the only afternoon case so he will have everyone's FULL attention....definitely good news. Must be an "Italian" thing but this surgeon from Rome seems particularly attentive to Max. More good news. The bad news however, is really bad news. If Max doesn't have surgery until noon we are going to have to keep him away from food for half a day, for everyone who knows Max you can appreciate how painful this will be for all involved.

Stay tuned.....

3 comments:

Vicki said...

You definately do not stink as a mom! It does remind me of the time our son broke his hand, & I passed it off as a sprained/jammed finger until it got really bad. He played that for a while, believe me, & still does from time to time as the finger is bent. Sorry to hear it was a hard day.
A fellow "stinky" mom.
Vicki

Terri Peach said...

Sorry you had a bad day. We are thinking and praying for Max and will keep an eye on the blog to keep abreast of any changes to the schedule. Hang in there, don't beat yourself up and give Max a hug Christopher!

Cass said...

How lucky Max is to have a family that loves him so much. Keep faith and know that everything happens for a reason. Give little Max a big smooch for me. I know how much he likes that. ha ha. Hugs from home.